Religion, politics, and money.

Dec 16, 2011

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Loved this quote from Riparians at the Gate's seven quick takes this morning:

Any suggestions for good conversation starters? Mixed company, so religion, politics and money talk are right out. Also, education (mostly), childrearing (mostly), childbearing (mostly), because those are basically religion, politics, and money, Parenting Edition.

That's all. I just liked the turn of phrase.

(This is why polite, socially savvy SAHMs have so much more trouble than I do answering the "So what do you do?" question.)

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6 responses to “Religion, politics, and money.”

Amber

December 16, 2011

Me too – and quite true. I was at a function a few weeks ago and realized I have absolutely no ability to make small talk with people outside the Catholic and/or homeschooling bubble I inhabit. Granted, small talk was always a challenge for me, but this was really awkward and awful!

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bearing

December 16, 2011

It’s not that I’m unable to make conversation about other things, it’s just that folks start edging away after a few minutes.

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Amber

December 17, 2011

Yes, I know what you mean. Either I can think about nothing at all or I start talking about something I feel passionate about and they start edging away. I guess I should either get out more and get more practice, or I should never go out. This last time I tried to listen carefully to how people were making small talk and I realized how many of their comments were a thinly veiled way to talk about themselves – since I had no interest in talking about myself it wasn’t very helpful… But since I am good at feigning eager interest in whatever a person is going on and on about I do ok once someone gets started.

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Jennifer Fitz

December 19, 2011

I’m so glad I’m not alone!

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bearing

December 19, 2011

Too bad you’re never at the parties I find myself at.
(not that there are that many of them)

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bibliotecaria

December 20, 2011

What I find disappointing is that these topics are becoming “taboo” in everyday talk. If we are supposed to be so accepting in today’s modern culture, then why aren’t listening to people talk about these things? (That was meant ironically, in case that wasn’t clear.)

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