Great post on Confirmation at And Sometimes Tea. Sometimes I wonder if I'm ever going to come to the end of these surprises: "What do you mean the way we do it here in the U. S. isn't the way it's supposed to be done?" Although I knew the Eastern rites did it differently, so this just makes it all make sense.
Confirmation is not a sacrament of maturity; it's meant for children. Confirmation is not becoming an adult in the church, either. It is not a sacrament where one claims or affirms the faith for himself, and it is not the sacrament that completes Christian initiation.
Read and find out what it is.