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bear – ing n 1  the manner in which one comports oneself;  2  the act, power, or time of bringing forth offspring or fruit; 3 a machine part in which another part turns [a journal ~];  pl comprehension of one’s position, environment, or situation;   5  the act of moving while supporting the weight of something [the ~ of the cross].


  • Tribunal.

    Amy Welborn has a good post that starts with the Pope’s speech to the Roman Rota (which serves as an "appeals court" in marriage cases) and winds up with a quote from a man whose Tribunal experience led him to the same conclusion I have come to re: the high annulment rates in North America:

    …my Tribunal experience has been a real eye-opener, especially in light of the contraceptive and divorce mentality I encounter in most people, including Catholics. In fact, these mentalities are so pervasive within North American society that after four days on the Tribunal I found myself declaring as many marriages invalid as the next judge … and wondering to myself whether any marriage attempted today in North America is valid.

    In short, as a Traditional Catholic canonist, I can safely say that since the sexual devolution of the sixties, the rise in marriage annulments has not been because of the Second Vatican Council and a more liberal application of canon law, but because of a selfish and unrealistic understanding of what marriage entails by your average person entering into it.

    That’s what I think.  We have too damned many annulments granted in the U.S.  It’s not because annulments are too easy; it’s because weddings are too easy.  As Amy says:  "stop witnessing the marriage of every baptized Catholic who walks into the rectory and asks for one."


  • 7 myths about the Challenger explosion.

    "It didn’t explode, the crew didn’t die instantly, and it wasn’t inevitable."  Are your twenty-year-old memories accurate?

    One of the best articles on the subject was written by Edward Tufte, author and designer of several beautiful and elegant texts on the visual display of quantitative information.  The same material appears in this book.

    His story:  Engineers indeed tried to convince managers not to launch the shuttle on such a cold day.  But they attempted to make their points with some very poorly-designed charts and graphs.  Had they used better ones (Tufte provides an example of what might have been), the decision to launch not only would have seemed ill-advised, but would have been shown to be foolhardy.  (To my knowledge the article is not available online, but a sample of the most damning material — the graphs the engineers made to show to the decision-makers, together with Tufte’s reorganization of the exact same information — appears in a book review here.)

    Communication is important.  Very important.  Often we think of communication as a text-based endeavor.  We can evaluate text:  this is bad writing, that is good writing, this one is concise and clear, that one is windy and obscure.  The same accusations can be leveled at quantitative information — charts, graphs, diagrams, maps.  And yes, lives depend on them, sometimes.



  • Home, again.

    Light blogging over the last few weeks has been for a good reason:   Saturday we moved into our new house, just three months after the "big digger" showed up.  Leslie, the GC (general contractor), tells us that the certificate of occupancy was granted one year to the day after she mailed the brochure we’d requested.  So:  that’s how long it takes to build a modular house in Minneapolis, Minnesota.

    Friends came over to help us move all the big pieces.  "This is interesting," one said as he carried boxes down the steps of one house, out the door, across both yards, and into the house next door.  "Never helped with a move like this one."  We left a lot of odds and ends, as well as… detritus… of various sorts, in the old house to deal with over the course of a couple of weeks.  It’s got to be cleaned from top to bottom, and much of it has to be repainted, so it won’t set back the sale very long to go through the junk a little more slowly. 

    The first day, we discovered a few bugs.  The shower in the master bathroom ran and ran and never got warm.  Was the water heater not set right?  I had to go to the basement and read the owner’s manual to find out!  (Yes, 120 deg F.)  Must be the mixing valve.  Call Leslie!  After dinner, a puddle appeared under the dishwasher.  Hmm.  Call Leslie!  Then we discovered that when you turn off the light from the top of the basement stairs, all the lights in the basement go out as well.  Call Leslie!

    We’re still eating dinner on a wobbly card table, and I spent $500 today at Wal-Mart and IKEA getting things like toilet brushes and laundry baskets and chairs and spare sheets for the guest room (Mark’s parents come up to visit this week to help frame  walls and sew curtains and that sort of thing).  But it’s starting to feel pretty good.

    Pics to follow when I figure out which box has my camera.


  • “This is such a safe, comfortable place.”

    Hey!  It’s my family doctor, in a wonderful, positive article in the Minneapolis Star-Tribune about the only pro-life family medical clinic in Minnesota:

    The AALFA Family Clinic’s uniqueness goes well beyond its name and decor. It offers services that most family-practice clinics offer, with one major difference: As a self-described "Christian prolife clinic" that serves primarily Roman Catholics and evangelical Christians, it does not refer patients for abortions or prescribe birth-control pills or other forms of contraception, said Dr. Mary Paquette, one of AALFA’s three physicians.

    As of Sunday, Roe vs. Wade, the 1973 Supreme Court decision that legalized abortion, will have been the law of the land for 33 years. But AALFA, believed to be the only clinic of its kind in Minnesota, adheres to what its doctors and patients view as higher principles.

    Paquette, her husband, Dr. Matthew Paquette, and Dr. Paul Spencer, along with a physician’s assistant, a nurse practitioner, two nurses and many of their patients, believe that life begins at conception. "We are called to care for each patient with love, care and respect from conception to old age," Mary Paquette said.

    AALFA’s philosophy and highly personal care have won it a large following — 5,000 active-account patients over the past two years, said office manager Nancy Grace. Patients come from throughout Minnesota and other states.

    Patients interviewed on a recent morning expressed admiration for the clinic and its approach to care.

    We only recently switched over to AALFA.  It is a forty-minute drive, but absolutely worth it.  The article focuses on Mary Paquette’s adult clients, but the family practice physician’s attitude toward and with children is compassionate and positive, too. 

    A detail the article doesn’t note:  Mary Paquette treats women and children; Matt Paquette treats men and boys older than twelve.


  • The mystery of the Erin Bird.

    Milo, age 2, loves birds.  He and I are hanging out together tonight while Mark takes Oscar skiing, so it seemed like a good evening to check out the Cornell Lab of Ornithology Online Bird Guide.  When I showed him the page, Milo pointed to the pictures just to the right — the little group of four — and said, "Itza wood duck."  He’s right, there it is, in the lower right hand corner.  (For that, I have Hannah to thank, because she bought a few little stuffed birds with bird calling chips inside, including the wood duck — here’s some for sale. Note the wood duck.)

    The way this goes is, I show him a bird and tell him the name.  He repeats it.  Then I play the sound, and while the sound is playing, he shouts "Honk!" or "Birdie birdie birdie!" or "Drink your tea!" — according to whichever it sounds the most like, no matter what sort of bird it is.  (He has learned that the Canada goose says honk and the northern cardinal says birdie birdie birdie and the eastern towhee says drink your tea.)

    As we listen and look, I’m hoping to find the identity of the mysterious "Erin bird" that kept startling me when we went camping with several adults and children last summer here in southeastern Minnesota.  Whatever it is, it sounds exactly like a small child shrieking "Erin!!!!" which is guaranteed to get my attention.  I figure it’s probably a bird of prey — certainly not a sparrowy type of call.  The red-tailed hawk is a strong possibility, because they are very common here, but the call doesn’t sound exactly right to me.   (If you have RealPlayer, you can listen to the call by clicking on the multimedia link partway down the page for each bird.)



  • Code Pink shuts women’s mouths?

    Speaking of speech in opposition, there’s always the tactic of putting one’s own speech in the mouths — or on the placards — of others.  This interesting tidbit came via PubliusPundit.  You’ve got to compare and contrast two photos, and I’ll try to make it a little easier than PP did.  :

    First, go here — why not open a new window? — and scroll down to the second photograph, which shows a young Iranian woman participating in a protest against sex discrimination under Iran’s Islamic leadership.  She wears an olive-green button down blouse, a black headscarf, and a distinctive ring on her left hand.  She holds one piece of paper aloft and thrusts forward another, bearing writing in Arabic, towards the camera, which has caught her mid-shout.

    Found her?  OK.  Now check out the banner at the top of this Internet ad at CodePink.  See anyone familiar?

    I don’t suppose they got her permission, do you?  I mean, maybe this young woman is anti-war in general, which is certainly her prerogative, and maybe like the signers of the statement mentioned in the ad she is opposed to the "senseless war in Iraq" along with the other items mentioned.  But do we know?  And doesn’t that picture, paired with the text of the appeal, sort of imply that the demonstration she marched in was an anti-Iraq-war demonstration, and not an anti-Iranian-government, pro-democracy demonstration?  Is that fair to her?

    And what did they do to her mouth?

    (h/t Instapundit)


  • No-fault divorce, easy annulments, and abandoned spouses.

    Fascinating interview at GodSpy with Bai Macfarlane, a homeschooling, at-home mother of four — well, at least she was before her husband won custody of the kids and put them in school and day care — who has been campaigning for an end to no-fault divorce and advocating for greater care in the granting of tribunal declarations of nullity.  Her proposal that the civil courts defer to the Catholic tribunal in the case of legal marriages between Catholics doesn’t sound tenable to me.  But she has a lot of very thoughtful things to say from the point of view of a woman who doesn’t want the courts to end her legal marriage, nor the tribunal to declare her union invalid.

    Are such declarations granted too easily?  Possibly so, in some individual cases.  I tend to think that the large number of such declarations granted in the U. S. dioceses are a reasonable response to an untenable situation, namely poor marriage preparation and poor discrimination on the part of the clergy who preside at the weddings.  I’d bet that at least half of all apparent marriages between Catholics are arguably vulnerable to being declared invalid, if the facts were known. 


  • What makes America different.

    A short piece by Paul Starobin in this month’s Atlantic Monthly caught my attention.  It’s about American exceptionalism — do we have, anymore, any rational basis on which to claim that the United States is unique?  Starobin says yes, at least in one aspect.  Because the article may not be available to non-subscribers, I’ll reproduce in its entirety the point that struck me:

    So is America still an exceptional country? The answer is yes. Our remaining exceptionalism resides in our culture’s striking combination of deep religious faith and nearly libertarian social permissiveness. These qualities don’t rub elbows easily, and their twinned presence separates the United States from nearly all other countries, rich or poor.

    It is well known that Americans are more deeply religious than the citizens of just about any other affluent post-industrial society. In a typical assessment the Pew Global Attitudes Project found that 59 percent of respondents in America answered the question "How important is religion in your life?" with "Very important," compared with 33 percent in the United Kingdom, 30 percent in Canada, 27 percent in Italy, 21 percent in Germany, 12 percent in Japan, and 11 percent in France. Across the past several decades religiosity has fallen steeply in all these places except America. And although Republicans are more likely than Democrats to say that religion is very important to them, religious belief is still far more intense in the blue states than in the rich, modern patches of ground outside the United States.

    Of course, that doesn’t mean the United States is unique in its religious character—just that it is unique among rich nations. In this regard America is more like, say, Chile and Turkey. We are also like those countries, and unlike Europe, in our attachment to certain conservative social values that tend to be associated with traditional religious conviction. Thus America, Chile, and Turkey—but generally not the countries of Western Europe—score high in surveys of such values as patriotism and the importance of family. These aspects of our culture are not vestigial; they are active and self-renewing.

    Of course, America is culturally quite different from Chile and Turkey in other core respects. Unlike the inhabitants of those relatively poor countries, or of Egypt and Pakistan, most Americans are not preoccupied with economic survival. An emphasis on survival, economic or physical, tends to draw societies inward and make them fearful of outsiders and of change. Cultural conformity is often valued, and duty to family and community preferred over individual pursuits. Survivalist societies also tend to welcome state ownership of industry, and tend not to value educating women or protecting the environment. America has had survivalist periods, but since World War II survivalist values have held little sway.

    Rather, Americans—like the Swedes, the French, the Australians, and other rich peoples—focus on the infinite variety of leisure and educational activities that our wealth permits us to pursue. The ascendant value in this domain is one that has always been dear to the American character: personal autonomy, the ability to do one’s own thing.

    Having a foot in both fixed traditionalism and permissive modernism makes us still something of an outlier nation—astride both camps and at home in neither.

    I think he’s right on.  Reflecting on the seeming paradox of American values — that we value freedom to the point of permissiveness (especially in the area of freedom of expression, which is actually declining in other post-industrial democracies) but at the same time are, like it or not, largely made up of people of faith, many with strong traditionalist tendencies — gives me a flush of pride that I might, embarrassingly, have to call patriotism. 

    I love truth and charity; but I’m glad that we can, for the most part, spew many kinds of falsehoods and hatred without fear of legal retribution.  I am a traditionalist with regard to sexual morality (and a bit of a federalist — I think states, not the feds, have the right to regulate extramarital sexual behavior); but really, I’m glad that sodomy laws are falling out of favor.   I’m displeased with a great deal of what goes on in public schools and I think religious education is a great thing, but I object to religious content (as well as anti-religious content) in public-school speech, even religious content that I agree with. 

    I think it’s fair to say that most of the "hot-button" issues in American politics have to do with drawing a precise line where our so-called traditional values and freedom, or permissiveness, intersect.  These tend to have openly religious people and non-religious people lining up on both sides. 

    And it’s not always clear which way lies liberty.  Partly because, as Margaret Atwood wrote in The Handmaid’s Tale, there are two kinds of freedom, "freedom to" and "freedom from."  Take, for example, speech-that-can-be-perceived-as-denigrating:  The law can support one or the other.  Either people can be free from hearing it directing it at them, or people can be free to speak it.  Some countries have, in general or in specific cases, chosen the path of "freedom from;"  Germany comes to mind (anti-semitic speech is expressly illegal there), and Canada (religious leaders and others have been fined and for speaking about religious beliefs relative to homosexual contact).  But for the most part, here, we have gone the way of "freedom to." 

    Not everyone likes this, of course, and there are always attempts to silence the other side or at least confusion about it — Why are THEY allowed to speak their minds about this? Both left and right are guilty of this error from time to time.  Wishing that one’s opponents would shut up is natural; I submit that wishing the government would shut one’s opponents up is, well, un-American.


  • Schooling boys.

    There’s a fabulous discussion at Althouse — read the comments — about the different reaction of boys and girls to education, and what educators and administrators can do to help boys.  Why don’t boys do as well as girls in school, overall?  I lean toward commenter Bonnie’s opinion:  Education is mostly controlled by women.  It’s not that there’s necessarily a conscious bias against boys, but if there were more men in the system (especially as classroom teachers in the elementary grades) perhaps the system would be more adaptable to the boyishness of boys.

    How about scholarships for young men who want to enter elementary education?  If it’s o.k. to have scholarships for women in engineering, surely scholarships for men in education — where the gender disparity is much more serious — are a good idea.

    Actually, the best way to bring more men into the elementary classroom is probably to increase the number of paths by which people (of either gender) can enter teaching as a second career.   The number of hoops that an engineer has to jump through to teach middle-school-level math is ridiculous.

    I worry about schooling my own sons.  I’ve never been a boy.  Already I snap "Sit still!" far too often.  Really, who cares if he sits still?  It’s not like he’s bothering the other students.  Any recommendations on books about helping boys learn as boys?


  • Seal of the confessional.

    Jimmy Akin links to a story from Los Angeles:

    A judge has ruled that a monsignor in the Roman Catholic Archdiocese of Los Angeles must submit to deposition questions in the far-reaching clergy abuse case.

    In his order, Los Angeles Superior Court Judge Haley Fromholz writes that Monsignor Michael Lenihan cannot assert "clergy privilege" to avoid revealing whether he heard confessions of a deacon accused of sexual abuse.

    Fromholz writes that "the penitential privilege protects ‘a communication made in confidence"’ but "does not prohibit the disclosure of the fact that the communication occurred."

    In other words, the judge has ruled that even though a priest is permitted by U. S. law (technically a First Amendment protection, I believe) to keep secret what he hears in confession, the priest is not protected from revealing whether or not he has heard a particular person’s confession.  (Note that regardless of the civil law, a priest may not break the seal of the confessional and, where there is no civil protection of the confessional, he must submit to civil punishment rather than reveal the contents of a confession.)

    I understand that there is some debate regarding whether Canon Law considers the fact that a confession took place to be under the seal of a confession.  It seems rather odd to me — going to confession is usually a public act, even if the confession itself is not public.  Anyone can sit in the church and watch penitents standing in line at the confessional.  But read it for yourself (n.b. "confessor" = "the priest who hears the confession"):

    Can.  983 §1. The sacramental seal is inviolable; therefore it is absolutely forbidden for a confessor to betray in any way a penitent in words or in any manner and for any reason.

    §2. The interpreter, if there is one, and all others who in any way have knowledge of sins from confession are also obliged to observe secrecy.

    Can.  984 §1. A confessor is prohibited completely from using knowledge acquired from confession to the detriment of the penitent even when any danger of revelation is excluded.

    So, let’s say a crime is committed on Monday.  Tuesday, Joe makes a confession to Father Smith.  Father Smith knows "Joe made a confession to me on Tuesday."  Fr. Smith knows this because… he acquired the knowledge during confession!  Now the state is prosecuting Joe for some crime and wants to use "Joe made a confession to Fr. Smith the day after the crime" as a piece of evidence that suggests Joe did something bad prior to Tuesday… that is, the state wants to use the knowledge "Joe made a confession to Fr. Smith on Tuesday" to Joe’s detriment.  Is Fr. Smith permitted to reveal that fact to the state?

    I’d say Fr. Smith is prohibited completely, but IANACL.

    Anyway, a good analysis of this story is to be found at Canon-law-blog In the Light of the Law, who demonstrates that there are no relevant legal conclusions that can be drawn from the fact that a person did or didn’t make a confession anyway.  So why bother (unless it’s some sort of slippery-slope attempt to remove penitential privilege entirely)?  To sum up, in the case of Joe-under-suspicion, a court can’t conclude

    1. whether Joe confessed a serious sin (rather than a trivial one),
    2. whether Joe confessed something that wasn’t already public knowledge,
    3. whether Joe confessed something new (rather than something he had previously confessed),
    4. whether Joe confessed a sin at all,
    5. whether Joe completed his confession or was interrupted,
    6. whether Joe confessed something that would be wrong for everyone, or something that would be wrong only if Joe or others in his specific situation did it.

    So why try to get the priest to say whether a particular accused person went to confession at all?