Category: A Sampler of Posts

  • Pickiness.

    One problem with being “on a diet” in America:  It tends to make you an aggravated, and possibly aggravating, dinner guest. This is where the habit of gluttony* really shows its true colors, and in so many different ways.  Our cultural expectation of overeating as part of a celebration — and I don’t mean ordinary,…

  • The remains of impulse.

    I was obese [editing note:  I’d say “fat” today] for my entire life, up till age 33.  That year, for no apparent reason, I had an epiphany:  a new desire. The twin desires for a better [thinner] body and better health, I’d always had those.  As long as I remember I alternated between wanting thinness badly enough to work…

  • The other daily specials.

    The last fast-food restaurant I took the kids to was Sonic, an eat-in-your-car drive-in kind of place.  We were in Bloomington, I didn't want to get the sleeping baby out of the car, and I thought the novelty of the roller-skating car hops would be entertaining.  (I was right about that one, by the way.)…

  • Bland and cautious: Two posts that say something I meant to say.

    First, from Darwin, a few weeks ago. [T]here are a good many people who know me in real life who read the blog. More than that, after writing a blog for four-and-a-half years, you get to think of a number of your long-time readers and commenters are friends. The blog becomes like a corner coffee…

  • The corpus and the cross.

    Rich Leonardi has a cryptic post up about a hypothetical bumper sticker he'd like to see in the Cincinnati Archdiocese:  "We Preach Christ Crucified."  I read through the comments while waiting for him to update and explain himself, and came upon this comment: Evangelical friends of mine maintain that their cross, devoid of a corpus,…

  • Dialogue.

    Tito Edwards at The American Catholic has a post on ecumenism that is followed by an interesting combox discussion.   Writing about institutional-level dialogue and ecumenism, Tito states:   Ecumenism, whatever that means anymore, is a dead cat.  It’s going nowhere because it has no idea what it is.  Hence the forty years of fruitless labor…

  • Short lived.

    Something about this memoir of a severely malformed baby's short life, written by his 16-year-old sister, brought something home to me.  One of those things I knew in my mind but that nevertheless struck me with new, raw power as I read her words. How crazy that a substance as unimaginably beautiful as the soul…

  • Feeling fear.

    I've never had trouble with the concept that Jesus felt physical pain, that He physically suffered.  Seems obvious to me:  If you have a body, it hurts sometimes.  And that doesn't feel good, even if you know the pain is necessary and a sign of something good.  Anybody who's given birth knows this.  Pain is…

  • I hope you are still reading Charlotte Was Both.

    My heart leaps into my throat every time that blog comes up highlighted in my feed reader.  I think:  Oh Amy, how are you doing? And what have you got to tell us? She is writing about how things knit together, and I am experiencing a certain knit-togetherness too.  Her Michael died suddenly, on the…

  • Self awareness.

    Here is a thesis that occurred to me over the weekend as I mused about success and failure, about weakness and willpower, about competing selves: Could it be that… once you KNOW what you should do…   moral behavior, or "good" behavior, or "healthy" behavior (take your pick) is nothing more than the setting-up of…

  • Via dolorosa.

    Last Friday I was staying at a high-end casino and spa in Las Vegas, part of a vacation we take with Mark’s family, on his parents’ dime, every couple of years.  (Vegas was chosen for its something-for-everybody nature.  Even though I don’t think any of us did any gambling.)   You know how when you’re…

  • Speak, show, argue, listen, rebut, correct, pray.

    Doctrinal Note On Some Aspects of Evangelization, a clarification on the faithful's responsibility to evangelize, produced by the CDF.  (link is a pdf file of 14 pages).  It's an argument that positive evangelization is still necessary, as well as a caution against attempts to put dishonesty and coercion at the service of the Gospel. This…